• PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee
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    11 months ago

    For everyone playing at home,

    Getting frustrated and yelling in an argument within the context of an otherwise normal friendship, family history, or intimate relationship, is an unfortunate breakdown of civil communications but is not itself abusive.

    What’s abusive, and what these search results should be concerned with, is if it is a regular occurrence representative of the relationship as a whole.

    Both are actually pretty spot on tbch, it could be that you and your SO are so incompatible that neither of you can feel listened to without screaming in each others’ faces like baboons, or it could be a sign of a partner who uses brazen escalation to force their way in the relationship over any objections.

    Either way, GTFO and seek professional help if you can afford it, and support structures if you can’t.

    Please take care and keep safe folks.