I’m all ears if you have a better idea

Can you please point me to where I should cross post it then?

Trying to get someone from google to see this and fix it. I thought Lemmy was all tech workers

This isn’t rage bait. There are a lot of tech workers on Lemmy and it’s likely that someone that works at Google could see this and fix the issue.

Agree with everything you said btw

His argument is the exact same argument people use to justify racism.

Awareness of the double standard is exactly how it will get fixed. No need to be defeatist.

What a toxic take. Because a smaller percentage of men are affected by violent abuse that means they shouldn’t be offered support for verbal abuse?