• psivchaz@reddthat.com
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    11 months ago

    The true mildly infuriating is the comments. Whether this is rage bait or not, we should all be about to agree on some basic things:

    • Domestic violence sucks regardless of who the victim is and who the perpetrator is.

    • Helping one group of victims, like males, does not have to and should not take away from helping another group.

    • The number of victims should not be the deciding factor on whether victims deserve empathy and support.

    People in here are going out of their way to defend what is clearly a biased oversight, treating women like an automatic victim and treating men like an automatic perpetrator. Why? Just acknowledge that it’s dumb, shows bias, and move on.

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      11 months ago

      This isn’t rage bait. There are a lot of tech workers on Lemmy and it’s likely that someone that works at Google could see this and fix the issue.

      Agree with everything you said btw

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        11 months ago

        Nah, it’s shown up on reddit for years on many reposts. Google just doesn’t care.

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            11 months ago

            That a random worker at Google would not only see this, but also make changes based on it. That kind of stuff only happens with indie devs and open source projects. Plenty of companies take things like this into consideration but workers aren’t going solo.

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            >not rage bait

            >likely that someone that works at Google could see this

            > and fix the issue.

            Your statements are funny.

            It’s literally on “mildly infuriating”

            It’s not likely that a Google programmer who works on search results would see it

            And further then make changes to whatever response database and further have access and the go-ahead to do so

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              11 months ago

              Aren’t they likely to see brand mentions?

              Same principle:

              Would be irresponsible not to be tracking keywords ‘round the web… imagine if this discussion were “new Google Search CSAM exploit”! But I do expect some level of engagement really helps the odds of discussions being raised to a company’s attention, so you’re right it’s not a guarantee.

            • Dble@lemmy.todayOP
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              11 months ago

              Can you please point me to where I should cross post it then?

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                11 months ago

                “you have to have a better idea then mine in order to show that me saying something is not ragebait and is LIKELY is wrong”

                No

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      There’s a difference between thinking that male victims of domestic abuse don’t deserve sympathy or support, and thinking that it’s okay for “useful search results” to vary according to gender.

      The results are biased because the danger is biased.
      It’s an unfortunate reality that information about domestic violence is more likely to be useful to a woman concerned about an angry male partner than the opposite.

      That doesn’t minimize the suffering of men who do need support, it’s just putting information more likely to be useful first.
      The domestic abuse hotline is the second result, and the first one also affirms that everyone deserves to feel safe in their relationships, and to calm the hotline if you don’t.

      “My wife/husband hit me” both yield the same results, which makes sense.

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        I’m not sure what you’re talking about. One result affirms that you should feel safe and provides a hotline, the other starts with outright victim-blaming. The second result under “Maybe it’s your fault for not listening?” is not a hotline, at least for me.

        My point is that if they just made the result the same then it would not detract from women, nor would it hurt the men who don’t need the advice. You’re going out of your way to defend an unnecessary bias by claiming it’s more relevant, but that’s not the point. They could choose to just not have the bias, and it would be a win while hurting no one.

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          My point is that it’s not an unnecessary bias, it’s different results for different queries.

          Yes, I am going out of my way to say that treating an issue with a 1 in 3 incidence rate the same as one with a 1 in 10 incidence rate isn’t a necessary outcome to ensure an automated system has.

          Providing relevant information is literally their reason for existence, so I’m not sure that I agree that it’s not the point. There isn’t some person auditing the results; the system sees the query and then sees what content people who make the query engage with.
          I don’t see the system recognizing that a threshold of people with queries similar to one engage with domestic abuse resources and tripping a condition that gives them special highlighting, and a people with queries similar to another engaging with dysfunctional relationship resources more often is a difference that needs correction.

          I’m not sure what to tell you about different results. I searched logged out, incognito, and in Firefox.

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            There isn’t some person auditing the results

            Those top bar things… are literally audited answers from Google. They’re outside the normal search results and moves the actual result completely in the UI. Someone at google literally hard coded that anything returning results relating to womens domestic violence should present that banner.

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              That’s not how it works. They code a confidence threshold that the relevant result will have to do with domestic violence in general. That’s why it provides the same banner when the result is more unambiguously relevant to domestic violence.

              None of this is the same as a person auditing the results.

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                11 months ago

                Can we just agree whatever metric they choosed is biased?

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        Also, the connotation of “yelling” can differ by gender. I had male classmates in high school talk about parents “yelling” at them when there was no raised voice, just a discussion of how the child had failed to meet expectations. When men say a female partner is “yelling” they often mean “nagging” or “bothering.” Conversely, when women say a male partner is “yelling” they typically mean “using a raised voice in anger.”

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      All I’ve got to say is that I might begin to take female domestic abuse victims with a grain of salt if I’ve any suspicion they would treat male victims similarly. Because to many victims, it is obvious that it can happen to anyone and be perpetrated by anyone, regardless of gender of either. But if they say men can’t be abused, that just tells me that they have never experienced abuse and removes any credibility from anything they could possibly say about the subject.